You’re Not Bad at Nutrition. You’ve Just Been Given the Wrong System.
- Paul Evans
- Jan 6
- 3 min read
If nutrition feels harder than it should, you’re not alone.
In fact, the majority of people who struggle with food aren’t failing because they lack willpower, discipline, or motivation.
They’re failing because the system they’re using was never designed for real life.
Most people don’t eat badly.They eat inconsistently, reactively, and without a structure that holds up under pressure.
And when life gets busy, stressful, or unpredictable, everything falls apart.
Not the person.The system.
Why “Eating Well” Isn’t Enough Anymore
One of the biggest myths in nutrition is that results come from simply “eating healthy”.
People eat salads. They cook at home. They choose low-calorie options. They train.
Yet:
Weight doesn’t move
Energy dips
Cravings creep in
Motivation fades
Progress stalls
That’s because what you eat matters far less than how it fits into your week.
Nutrition doesn’t happen on perfect days.It happens around:
Poor sleep
Stress
Training loads
Work demands
Social plans
Travel
Family life
Most plans ignore this completely.
The Real Reason People Feel Tired, Flat or Stuck
When people say:
“I’m always tired”
“I feel sluggish”
“My training isn’t clicking”
“My weight won’t budge”
They often assume something is wrong with them.
In reality, the issue is usually misaligned fuelling.
Common patterns I see repeatedly:
Undereating earlier in the day
Saving calories for later
Long gaps without food
Training hard without supporting it
Eating “clean” but not eating enough
The body adapts by:
Increasing stress hormones
Slowing recovery
Reducing output
Holding onto weight
Increasing hunger signals
Blood tests often come back normal. People are told everything is “fine”.
But they don’t feel fine.
Why Most Nutrition Advice Stops Working After a Few Weeks
Generic advice works briefly because novelty creates focus.
But as soon as:
Routine slips
Life interrupts
Motivation drops
The plan collapses.
That’s because most advice is built around rules, not systems.
Rules require constant effort. Systems adapt.
And this is where proper nutrition coaching changes everything.
What Nutrition Coaching Is Actually Meant to Do
Good nutrition coaching doesn’t just tell you what to eat.
It:
Creates structure
Reduces decision fatigue
Adapts to your lifestyle
Evolves as your needs change
That’s the work I do.
I’m Paul Evans, a Registered Nutritionist, and I work with people who are fed up of guessing.
Not beginners. Not people who “can’t be bothered”.
But people who are capable, driven, and frustrated that their effort isn’t translating into results.
Why My Approach Works for Fat Loss, Energy and Performance
Whether someone wants to:
Lose fat
Gain weight
Improve energy
Train better
Or simply feel normal again
The foundation is the same.
Structure first. Then progress. Then sustainability.
That’s the framework behind everything I do, and it’s the same thinking that’s shared daily on Instagram at @paulthenutritionist and explored in depth on my podcast, No Forking Nonsense, which consistently ranks #2.
Because people don’t need more rules. They need clarity.
When Nutrition Finally Clicks
The moment things change isn’t when someone finds the “perfect” meal plan.
It’s when they:
Stop second-guessing
Understand why they’re eating what they’re eating
Know how to adjust without panicking
Feel supported instead of restricted
Clients often say the biggest shift isn’t physical.
It’s mental.
Less food noise.Less guilt.Less starting over.
If You’ve Tried Everything, This Is Why It Hasn’t Worked
If you’ve:
Dieted repeatedly
Followed plans perfectly, then burned out
Felt good briefly, then slipped backwards
Wondered why nothing sticks
The issue isn’t effort.
It’s that no one ever built a system around your reality.
And until that happens, the cycle continues.
What to Do Next
If you’re reading this because something feels off with your:
Energy
Weight
Training
Or relationship with food
That’s not a weakness.
It’s awareness.
You don’t need another plan pulled from the internet.You need someone who understands how nutrition, stress, training and behaviour actually interact.
That’s where real progress starts.
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